Good mental health encompasses various aspects of an individual’s life, including how they think, feel, behave, and interact with others. It allows people to handle the normal stresses of life, cope with challenges, maintain positive relationships, work productively, and make meaningful contributions to their communities.
In short, good mental health means you can:
THINK: You will be able to process information, solve problems, and make decisions more effectively.
FEEL: You can experience a wide range of emotions and manage them in a healthy way.
BEHAVE: You can adapt to various situations, maintain healthy relationships, and cope with stress.
RELATE: You can interact with others, form connections, and maintain social relationships.
However, before integrating emotional regulation skills and coping strategies effectively, it’s important to concentrate on the four fundamental aspects of good mental health which are as follows.
1. Sleep
This one is the most important because quality sleep is essential for good mental health. It allows the brain to rest and recharge, consolidates memories, and regulates emotions. Lack of sleep can lead to mood swings, irritability, and difficulty concentrating.
Those who don’t get enough sleep have trouble managing adversity and are more prone to overreact, act impulsively, and not in one’s best interest.
Good sleep hygiene refers to your behavior and your sleep environment. This article has tips on. Mastering Sleep Hygiene: Your Path to Quality Sleep. Sleep really is the number one key to good mental health.
2. Eat Right
Good nutrition plays a significant role in mental health. A balanced diet that includes a variety of nutrients supports brain function and mood regulation. Consuming fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean proteins, and healthy fats can positively impact mental well-being. A lot of people are unaware of what is a processed food and what is not. And they are classified by not processed, minimally processed, processed, and ultra-processed, the latter being the devil in your diet and emotional well-being.
Examples of unhealthy processed foods
- Sugary beverages such as sweetened coffee and tea, energy drinks, and soft drinks.
- Deli meats, hot dogs, and sausages.
- Frozen pizza and frozen meals.
- Packaged snacks such as chips, cookies, crackers, and baked goods.
- Most breakfast cereals.
- Canned or instant soups.
This article on “What is a processed food anyway?” is a good guide and an easy-to-follow guide so you can make more informed choices.

3. Move
Physical activity is linked to better mental health. Exercise releases endorphins, neurotransmitters that boost mood and reduce stress. Regular exercise can help alleviate symptoms of anxiety and depression while improving overall cognitive function. Being outside can help.
“According to general results, exercise enhances mood and self-esteem while decreasing stress tendencies, a factor known to aggravate mental and physical diseases. Studies show that people who exercise regularly have a better frame of mind.”
Source: Role of Physical Activity on Mental Health and Well-Being: A Review
4. Connect
Human connections and social relationships are vital for mental health. Building and maintaining strong relationships with friends, family, and community members provides support, reduces feelings of isolation, and contributes to a sense of belonging and purpose.
In addition to these basics, practicing mindfulness, managing stress, seeking professional help when needed, and engaging in activities that bring joy and fulfillment are also important for maintaining good mental health. It’s crucial to understand that mental health care is unique to each individual and may require a combination of approaches tailored to personal needs.
“Social connections are important for our survival.”
Holt-Lunstad J, Steptoe A. Social isolation: an underappreciated determinant of physical health. Curr Opin Psychol. 2022;43:232-237
This article from the CDC, How Does Social Connectedness Affect Health? is a comprehensive exploration of the link between good mental health and connection.
Ignore these foundations, and you’re building a house on rice paper. Strengthen them and you can find a path forward.
AnneMoss Rogers is a leading wellness and suicide education expert and one of the top mental health speakers and suicide prevention speakers. Known for her powerful, motivational keynotes, AnneMoss combines her personal story of loss with proven strategies to help organizations build a wellness culture that drives results and saves lives. She speaks at conferences, workplaces, K-12 schools, and universities, delivering impactful presentations that inspire change and promote mental health awareness.
AnneMoss does this work in memory of her son, Charles, who struggled with anxiety, depression, and addiction, and died by suicide at age 20 in 2015.
Thank you for posting this.
This is such a great resource to read, learn from, apply and then share with others. So often we overlook things like sleep, eating well, exercise and keeping up with our social connections. These areas of life can be very challenging for those who have experienced a loss to suicide. As always, AnneMoss, you have given us all much food for thought. By being made aware of these things, we are in a much more fortuitous place in relation to our emotional, mental, physical and spiritual needs.
After a loss to suicide, sleep is hard to come by. I made it a religion to get that in order because I suffered so much more the next day. I know you have had a suicide loss, Heath, your beloved partner. I am sorry we have both experienced that brand of loss. I always appreciate your comments and contributions